The difference is appropriation vs appreciation. Appropriating is
mocking/using a culture. Cultural appreciation is celebrating alongside a
culture. Celebration is encouraged.
Let’s be real. If little girls’ knees, shoulders, and clavicles are a problem for male teachers, you don’t have a dress code issue. You have a pedophile issue.
being vulnerable enough to tell people how much you care about them is infinitely more brave than pretending to be above love and using edginess as a method of self-preservation